When You’re Grey

Since reaching my sixties, I’ve noticed that decidedly nonchalant, seemingly socially accepted forms of ageism are leaking out in all directions from some of the younger amongst us and particularly against me or anyone else who shares my age-region. To say the least, it’s incredibly annoying.

For instance, why is it that I’ve suddenly become “dear” – and intoned in such a way as to communicate that the speaker sees me as mentally deficient – to anyone under 50? I don’t know you, I’m not your granny or auntie or even a neighbour. But in any case it’s not just about knowing me; it’s about implying that I’m a sort of child-senior who deserves condescending endearments from total strangers.

Another thing is the amazement I sometimes hear about my ability to use technology. Comments such as “how great that you know how to do that,” it’s nice that you’re not afraid of technology” or this zinger: “you’re doing so well for your age.” Ugh. Here’s the reality: I’ve been using computers for 40 years and have had a smartphone since you were in kindergarten. I’m no stranger to computers, the internet, apps, digital wallets and streaming. My generation invented this stuff!

Just because my hair is grey doesn’t mean that a) I’m hard of hearing or b) half-blind. Neither has intimacy gone the way of the do-do bird.

I am not “cute.” Puppies and kittens are cute. I left cute behind many moons ago.

And another thing, we Gen-Xers and Boomers didn’t have it easier when we were 20-and-30-somethings: 20% interest rates on loans, the cold war, unemployment, stagnant wages, gas shortages, a couple of shorter recessions in the 70s followed by a real humdinger in the 80s. Buy a house? The closest I could have gotten to it would have been a dollhouse.

No, I don’t have dementia. Yes, my systems are ageing. Nothing works as well as it used to but I’m not a doddering old codger … er, codgerette. I’m a lot like the 18-year-old, manual Ford that’s parked in my garage. It has been and continues to be a great car and as time goes along, it needs more maintenance and even some fixing. But care will extend its useful life, just as it will for many of us.

I’ve dealt with discrimination from time to time, especially when I was younger. As I was coming of age, behaviours were easing up a little but it still wasn’t easy being female. Or being French, female, and pursuing a “non-traditional” career. And now this old age thing? It only feels like yesterday that the agism came from the other end of the spectrum. Yikes.

Thinking about Spring …

It doesn’t take much for me to start thinking about spring; a couple of days of windy and rainy overcast will do it! So instead of pining, I decided it would be a good idea to post a bit of spring.

March

Buttercups …

… tulips …

… daffodils.

April

Okanagan sunflowers …

… narcissus …

… plum …

… dogwood …

… magnolias …

… rhododendrons.

And that’s just March and April! Next week I’ll post some flower power pictures from May and June. Just looking through my spring photos puts a smile on my face; if you’re experiencing the seasonal blues I hope these help a bit. 🌸

Happy Tuesday.

Weather Change

Our weather reprieve is over and we’re back to overcast, wind, and probably some rain too before long. Oh well, the sun and warmer temperatures were great while they lasted, but it is January!

The snow was falling on the mountaintops …

… and the lake was doing some wind-driven pounding on the breakwater boulders …

… but a small lakeside rink had some peewees  enjoying a national pastime.

And what do supervising parents do? They start a fire in one of the beach pits! Hot drinks and hot dogs were sure to follow! How very iconically Canadian.

Happy Monday.

Greenland’s Freedom

Greenland is part of the democratic Kingdom of Denmark and as such, is part of a sovereign nation that is also a member state of the European Union and NATO. I have visited Greenland several times; its people are friendly, peaceful, tolerant and harmonious. But now because of the greed of one man and his gang of thug-puppets, these peace-loving people are under serious threat. They are scared and worried that their democratic right to choose their own destiny is about to be stolen from them.

A view of some of Greenland’s glaciers.

Supposedly Trump is concerned about U.S. security but there is absolutely no support for this notion. The Danes and Greenlanders have a 1951 treaty with the U.S. which allows it wide latitude as to the use of Greenlandic territory for security purposes. Outright political control will not provide the U.S. with more security than it already has; as I’ve already noted, the U.S. currently has complete access to Greenland. So if access isn’t really the motivation here, then what is?

Ice pans in the Arctic Ocean near Greenland.

I think there are four possible reasons, some or all of which may be responsible for Trump’s obsession with Greenland: its mineral wealth; the fact that Trump wants the “western hemisphere” to himself; third, that he owes the Praxis outfit – and other significant donors – a place to develop their weird and almost Nazi-like technical state; and lastly, as he stated in his inaugural speech, territorial expansion. In other words, he wants Greenland to be part of his bulls**t self-aggrandising legacy. Trump has stated that “it will happen whether Greenland likes it or not” because “Greenland is covered with Russians and Chinese ships all over the place.” That latter statement is a verifiable falsehood; it’s just an excuse for Trump to steal a sovereign land for his own greed and ego.

Courtesy of David Parkins

These threats against Denmark and Greenland have further stoked the fears in other countries as well. Trump has repeatedly threatened to annex Canada or to bring us to our economic knees and force us into joining the U.S. Other nations are also rightfully concerned: Mexico, Columbia, Iceland, Panama … the list goes on. And now nordic countries are beginning to send troops to Greenland under the vague umbrella of military exercises and/or strengthening Arctic security but that also is beginning to look like a preparation against invasion.

I’m strongly reminded of Hitler’s theft of the Sudetenland in the run-up to World War II; he used the Sudetenland as a pretext for the eventual takeover of all of Czechoslovakia. An existential question for us then: if we Canadians do not stand up to help protect Greenland, who is going to help us when Trump decides that “it will happen whether [Canada] likes it or not?”

Greenland glaciers

The recent Vance/Rubio meeting with Danish and Greenlandic foreign ministers Rasmussen and Moltzfeldt went nowhere and Trump doubled down on his demands. The fact is that Trump has to be stopped before he goes any further. He is completely out of control with his threats against allies and enemies alike (is there a difference any more?), but to threaten a democratic nation that is also supposed to be a friend and an ally such as Denmark and its island of Greenland is a new low.

Trump sycophant Stephen Miller’s rant vis á vis Greenland that might makes right is wrong, and it’s always wrong. Is this how the United States treats an old friend, an ally?? Is this how Trump carries out his election platform to remove the United States from involvement in wars??

Courtesy of David Parkins

There are only two ways that Trump’s aggressions against Greenland now can be irrevocably stopped before he worsens and we find ourselves likely headed into a major conflict of global proportions.

The first is for other Nordic countries, including Canada, to arm Greenland to the teeth with materiél and troops. The second is that the American people, regardless of politics, must make their overwhelming opposition (a new Reuters/Ipsos poll shows that only 17% of Americans approve of Trump’s efforts to annex Greenland) to this greed-driven scheme known.

Greenland

Standing up to Trump particularly through your representatives and most importantly, as your elections come up this year (a frightening thought making the rounds is that Trump might try to cancel them) is now more important than ever. At the very least, and for the sake of your country’s reputation, your voices need to be heard. That said, all of us need to do what we can to prevent Trump from going forward with this affront to democracy and self-determination.

Sometimes, life is like that.