Some of you dear readers have probably come to the conclusion that after my nasty experience with a male narcissist that I’m a sort of man-hater. Nothing could be further from the truth. My experience with Harry has in many ways been beneficial and clichéd as it might sound, has helped me to become a better person. Not that I would recommend this method of self-improvement.
Becoming a better person lead me to M. He is the love of my life and the best man I have ever met.
I feel profoundly lucky to have found you.
yes!! I agree- our teachers come in all forms in life. Some are not the kindness, but if we don’t close our hearts, it’s amazing what we can learn from everyone. Thank you!
You’re so welcome, Kimberly! 🙂
Hm… I never get the sense of any hatred when reading your blog. You are always very thoughtful. And I also see it as a teaching blog that many people can learn from. I fully agree with you – not every person responds to pain with hatred. There are so many choices… I am very happy that you found true love, amazing lady. That’s a beautiful thing. Yay you! and yay to M. Happy holidays!
Thanks for your comments, Teeny. I find it hard to know sometimes how I am coming across.
You’re amazing, too! Have a good holiday!
L & M = love and marriage.
We do learn through the people we are with the battles we sometimes ensure, the want for happiness and a normal life. I am lucky to have never felt the wrath of an angry man or another that has caused me grief (except when a relationship has finished) and the ensuing torment, stab in the guys feel you get. I am happy that you have taken your past and transformed it into your future with Mr M. xxx 🙂
my tops are obvious 😦 forgive me I am tired *gut* not guys.. and *ensue* not ensure – kicking myself for not reading as I type – sorrta loses the meaning somewhat 😦
crap – TOPS? what is with that TYPOS I mean – ok taking my bat and my ball and leaving now 😦
Thanks for your great comment, typos and all – I understood what you meant – it was actually pretty funny. 🙂
I was chuckling when I grabbed my bat and ball purely at my own stupidity and your welcome hun 🙂